I like rope and I like violence.
The consensual kind, that is.
My name is Joy (she/her), a 30something cisfem living in the San Francisco Bay Area. I’ve been doing kinky fuckery since 2013. This blog exists to collect my musings about kink, BDSM, and sex/relationships. You can also find information about educational classes I offer (coming soon).

Latest posts
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Let us die: on quiet quitting in relationships
If the only way to love you is to let us die Drive the car right off the cliff and let us dive And it’s not to say that I wanna live without you But… Read more
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Exceptional, not the exception: reflections on Fat Rope Lab
… I am not an exception. Nobody is, or should be made to feel as though they are. We are all exceptional, and every person with an interest in getting tied up and doing fun… Read more